I’m gonna start this post with
something totally off-topic, something that happened before I got to the poker
room on Saturday. It struck me as odd,
but then, as someone who has never been a parent, maybe I’m off base. I’d like
to get some feedback from parents out there, especially fathers of girls.
I encountered a female in the Men’s
Room of a fast-food restaurant. No, it
wasn’t anything like some of my previous encounters with women in the Men’s
Rooms in Vegas (see here for one of my better
stories of such an occurrence). Actually
it was a little girl accompanied by a man who was, I assume, her father. I guess I’ve seen this before, but not
recently. And what struck me as odd was
that girl appeared to be easily old enough to go to the Ladies Room by herself.
I’m bad at guessing ages of kids, but
I would estimate she was 9-10 years old.
Perhaps if she was particularly tall for her age, maybe she was only 7
or 8. She was definitely past the age where a parent would have to hold her
hand the entire time you were out in public with her. And just as I was exiting the Men’s Room, I
noticed her coming in, with her father (presumably) right behind.
Well, it struck me as weird. And then, a few minutes later, as I was
enjoying my In-N-Out burger, I noticed that the two of them were sitting not
far away. I couldn’t hear the
conversation, but the girl appeared to be conversing normally with her
dad. When they got their food, the girl
was eating it without any help from him. I point that out because I had been
wondering if the girl had some kind of disability—either mental or physical—that
might have made it necessary for her dad to help her in the restroom. That sure didn’t seem to be the case.
So it really struck me as odd that the
guy had to take his daughter to the Mens Room instead of having her use the
Ladies Room by herself. I could more easily
understand the other way around….if it was a mom taking her little boy into the
Ladies Room. Much more likely that a
little boy would run into a predator in the Men’s Room than a girl would run
into a predator in the Ladies Room, right?
Anyway—you dads out there: At what age did you let your girls use a
public Ladies Room instead of taking her into the Men’s Room?
When I got the poker room, I was
surprised to find that they had many open seats spread across four 2/3
games. Never saw that before at that
hour. I assumed that they had just
opened up the fourth 2/3 game, perhaps short-handed, and that people started
taking off. My table was almost
immediately 7-handed and for a good while we were 6-hand and even
5-handed. I was thinking they were going
to close a table and combine them, but we managed to hang on, and after an hour
or so the table was pretty much full the rest of my time there.
It was a session that started out with
a great hand and went downhill from there.
Early on, when we were 6-handed, the two designated aggros were both on
my immediate left, right next to each other.
I couldn’t get a read on anyone else because everyone else was folding
and it was basically just the two aggros going heads up. Or it folded around and the blinds
chopped. That happened a lot.
So when I got pocket deuces in the
cut-off and it folded to me, I didn’t just want to limp in as I might normally
do. I dunno if I’ve mentioned this
before, but in the L.A. rooms I play in, they allow you to chop the blinds even
if there’s been a limper (but only one).
Yeah, that’s right. If there’s
one limper and it gets to the small blind, one of the blinds will ask if the
limper is ok with chopping. If all three
agree, the limper takes back his limp, the blinds take back their blinds, and
we move to the next hand. It’s perfectly
acceptable to do that in L.A. I guess it’s
due to the rake structure. If there’s just the limper and the blinds in the
hand—or worse, the small blind folds—you’re fighting for basically a $3 pot.
I thought there was a good chance if I
limped in, the blinds would ask me to chop.
And since those deuces were the first playable hand I’d seen of the day,
it didn’t make sense not to play them.
So I made an unconventional raise to $7.
Only the guy on my immediate left—one of the aggros—called.
Good thing I played it that way. I hit my set, with two hearts on the board. Ordinarily I’d lead out there, but I was sure
if I checked, the aggro would bet. So I
checked and sure enough, the guy bet $15.
I just called. The turn was the
second spade and once again I checked.
He only bet $15 again. I check-raised
to $40. His turn bet was so weak that I
was sure he was just going for the steal and he’d likely fold. But no, he called.
A club hit the river and there was no
flush or straight possible. Only a
bigger set could beat me. This time I
led out for $50, hoping it wasn’t too much for him to call. It wasn’t.
After tanking a bit, he put out the $50.
I showed my set of deuces and he mucked.
One of the aggros left a little later
with a shitload of chips. The other one—the
one who had paid off my set of deuces—left a bit later after getting felted.
I did win a hand with the dreaded pocket Kings. Not much drama. Opened to $15, had two callers. Two Jacks and a low card on the flop. My $30
c-bet went uncalled.
One of the new players that came to
the table was a guy I recognized. He was
the guy who three-bet in front of me when I had the Kings in this post here.
He had made it very clear then that he thought I was the tightest player
on the planet, so I spent the rest of the day trying to find an opportunity to
exploit that. He won a couple of big
pots early and at one point had his stack up to over $1,100. I think I may have been spending too much
time thinking about him and not the other players.
I overheard him say that he’s planning
on moving to Vegas for school and that he plans on playing poker make his
expenses while he’s studying. He’s a
good player. And I’d be shocked if he
didn’t remember me from two weeks prior.
I wanted to raise after he limped in
to see if he would just assume I had Aces or Kings if I ever raised. But whenever he limped in, there were too
many other limpers for me to do that. I
didn’t think the other players would so easily fold. And he usually raised instead of limped. I suppose at least once I should have tried
three-betting light against him but I couldn’t bring myself to do it.
And then there was one hand where I
came really close to attempting a bluff against him. I didn’t write down notes
on this hand, but from memory, he opened (maybe $12?) and I decided to call
with 8-6 of clubs. He’d never in a million
years think I’d call a raise with that so if I could hit something there, I
could really catch him by surprise. It
turned out it was just heads up. I pretty
much whiffed. There was a 5 and a single
club on the flop. So all I had were
back-door flush and straight draws. He
checked and I checked behind. I did
think of betting there, assuming he had an Ace-King type hand and would likely
not call with overcards. Not against me.
But I couldn’t find the “bet” button.
The turn card paired the board and was not a club, so no help for me
whatsoever.
He bet out. I think it was $20. This time I came really, really close to
popping it. I figured he was just trying
to steal with overcards, and if I raised, he’d fold like a cheap suit. But again, after tanking for some time, I
just found it too easy to fold, so I did.
Well that was a good decision, as it
turned out. He showed his hand—pocket 5’s. I don’t think my bet would have gotten to
fold his full house. Phew!
The $100 profit I had early completely
disappeared. I was actually getting
hands to play. A lot of pocket pairs,
especially. But they never again turned
into sets and I had to let them go.
Then, I had Ace-Jack in middle position.
I opened to $15 and had two callers.
The flop was Queen-high and I tried a $25 c-bet. There was a call and then a guy made it
$100. I can take a hint. I folded. The other guy folded too. The raiser showed Ace-Queen.
There was some excitement later in the
afternoon. But it wasn’t at my
table. We heard some commotion. “Is that
a jackpot?” “No, I don’t think it
counts.” “I think it’s a jackpot.” I looked over to the table and the dealer was
the guy who had been at our table a few downs earlier. A really nice, friendly guy too. And he just started to smile and said, “It’s
a jackpot.” And then he called the floor
over.
I managed to get a peak. There were three Aces on the board, and the
winning hand was Ace-10. I believe it
was suited. The losing hand? Why pocket Kings of course. So Aces full of Kings is a qualifying losing
hand, as long as the winning hand is quads or better and both cards play. Well the other two cards on the board with
the Aces were 3 and 2. The 10 played. Jackpot time.
I had noticed when I got there the
jackpot was $22K and change. The losing
hand—the player with the Kings—got 50%.
The winning hand got 25% and the rest of the table split the remaining prize. Later I heard the shift boss telling them the
table share was $799.
I saw the board but I can’t remember
how it came out. I don’t think the three
Aces were all on the flop. One of the
players at my table said the guy with the Kings had to call $150 on the river
(this was a 3/5 game). He was impressed
that he made the call with three Aces out there. But why the hell not? He has the second nuts (I don’t think a
straight flush was possible). If the
bettor doesn’t have the case Ace, he’s gonna win the pot. If the bettor has the case Ace, it’s the
jackpot!
Unless the guy didn’t know about the
jackpot, or didn’t think that hand would qualify. But even then, how many players are gonna
bold Kings full when there’s only one card that beats you? Without knowing anything about how the action
went, would most players at a 3/5 game fold Kings full to a $150 bet even if
you didn’t know about the jackpot?
Anyway, being one table away from the
bad beat jackpot hitting is now the closest I’ve ever been to hitting a
BBJ.
Hey Rob,
ReplyDeleteMy daughter just turned 7 last month and we are in that grey area. If it's somewhere like a Starbucks or a small restaurant where it is a "single-seat" restroom, she will go by herself as long as me or her mom wait outside the door. If it is a large community bathroom like a theater, she prefers one of us go with her. It's not about being able, I think it's being alone with strangers. Even if it's just the two of us, I just stand guard guard outside the stall in the mens' room and wait for her.
You playing any of the Bike series? Thinking about trying a Mega on a Saturday upcoming to see if I can handle a long session.
DP
Thanks, Dave. I guess I was dismissing the safety issue a bit because it's the Ladies room but I understand you can't be too careful. This girl tho looked older than 7.
DeleteYes, I am definitely considering playing in one of the Megas on a Saturday. Not sure which day. Would be great if you felt up to it.
Hey Rob,
DeleteLooking like I'll play the next Saturday (the 25th) in the late flight. Hopefully I'll see you there.
Well, I'm glad you are gonna be able to play, and best of luck. My schedule is such that if I play, it'll be This Saturday in the early flight. Still unsure if I'm gonna make it. But if I do play and you play too, I'll see you at the final table!
DeleteI understand where Dave is coming from. Sometimes it is the choice of the child, and what they are comfortable with. Early last year I took my 6 year old granddaughter and her brother 9 on a road trip in my camper. My granddaughter did not want to go into the ladies alone, but she was quite happy to use the mens toilets and showers as long as I or her brother stood just outside the closed stall doors. She has matured a bit this year since she is now 7, and this year on our trip, she used the ladies, but I still had to stand outside the ladies rooms where I could hear her if she called out.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the insight, Pete.
DeleteIt is more likely a case of not leaving his young daughter alone in the restaurant when the father went to the washroom.
ReplyDeleteI did think of that. I asked a friend and he said he'd likely just send his girl into the Ladies room while he took care of his own business.
DeleteBUT in that scenario, what does the girl do, where does she stand, while her dad his at the urinal? Just try to find a place out of the way, facing the wall? Awkward!
Fortunately my wife is my shadow. She was always there to take care of these issues. I hate running into small girls when I am in the toilet or coming out of the showers in a gym. I feel violated afterwards. These should be safe zones.
ReplyDeleteDarryl
Thanks, Darryl. Obviously having the mother take care of it is the best solution for little girls. However, Dads do have father/daughter days and also, a lot of divorced Dads out there taking their daughters for a day or a weekend.
DeleteA player would have to have a pretty bad case of monsters under the bed to fold KK in fear of being beaten a one-outer.
ReplyDeleteIndeed. Of course, I don't know how the hand played out, I suppose it could have been so obvious that he had the case Ace it might give someone pause.
DeleteAnd to correct something in my post, if the KK guy knew about the BBJ, he could still worry that he'd lose the hand without winning the Jackpot. But in this case, with a 3 & 2 on the board, it would be almost impossible BUT....they'd miss the jackpot if the other player had EXACTLY Ace-deuce.
$150 call on the river doesn't even require the action player gene to make.
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